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Why Conditioning in Human Design Is Like a Mysterious Bruise

Why Conditioning in Human Design Is Like a Mysterious Bruise

This morning I hit my arm on the corner of my desk and it hurt.

But then I went about my business and thought, ā€œI bet that’s going to bruise later… and I won’t even remember how it happened.ā€

And suddenly it hit me. This is exactly what conditioning is like.

In Human Design, we’re each born with a natural energetic signature.

If we were raised in a world that fully honored who we are, with no boxes, no ā€œshoulds,ā€ and no pressure to be practical, we’d move through life with clarity, passion, and ease.

But most of us weren’t.

Instead, we learned to adapt.
That adaptation leaves a mark, just like that bruise.

Conditioning can be subtle.
Maybe you shared your wild ideas as a kid and someone told you they weren’t realistic.
Maybe you were creative, intuitive, or deeply sensitive, and adults around you made you feel like that was ā€œtoo much.ā€

In my case, I was an intuitive problem-solver.
I could see solutions others missed, but when I shared them, my mom would dismiss my ideas, not realizing her own limiting beliefs were speaking and that perhaps my intuition was right. Or at the very least could make life easier.

So I learned to tone it down.
To be more ā€œreasonable.ā€
And in doing so, I started moving away from my soul’s signature energy.

That’s what conditioning does. It teaches us to go against what’s natural for us.

But your aura, your energy field, still knows who you really are.

When you try to manifest or create change from that conditioned space, it feels like something’s missing.

You’ve forgotten your original blueprint!

That’s why deconditioning matters.
It’s the process of recognizing those patterns, letting go of what’s not yours, and remembering how you are wired to thrive.

You are born with an energy map!

 

✨ Deconditioning = Awareness + Unconscious Patterns + Release. ✨

If you’ve ever felt weighed down by all the ā€œshoulds,ā€ especially from corporate life, this is your invitation to return to your original roadmap. You know, the one that existed before anyone told you that you were doing it wrong.

That’s what the Activate Abundance with Human Design process helps you do.

It’s an intentionally designed, step-by-step process that takes you from information overload back to who you were before the world started telling you who you should be.

Instead of just learning about your chart, you’ll actually experience how alignment feels in real life, one experiment at a time.

When you recognize the pattern, shift it, and feel that flow again… you start to remember who you’ve always been!

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With love and alignment,

Nicole

Human Design Gates of the Throat Center: How You’re Meant to Speak, Share, and Be Heard

Human Design Gates of the Throat Center: How You’re Meant to Speak, Share, and Be Heard

Let’s talk about your voice for a second.
Not just how you speak but how people actually receive you.

Because if you’ve ever felt like people don’t fully get you, or you’re saying something that feels so clear inside of you but it’s not landing the way you expected, this is exactly where we begin.

Your Throat Center is not just about communication. It’s about manifestation.

In Human Design, nothing actually moves into reality until it passes through the throat.

Your ideas, your intuition, your energy, your excitement all build internally.
But your voice is what brings it to life. It’s what makes it visible. It’s what allows other people to meet you there.

Nothing becomes real until it’s expressed and your voice is how that happens.

So when we talk about being seen, being heard, attracting clients, creating opportunities, or even just feeling understood in your relationships, we are talking about your throat.

This is why this center matters so much.
And this is why understanding your specific Throat Center changes everything.

Because the truth is, your voice isn’t random.
And it’s definitely not something you need to fix.

It’s something you’re meant to understand.

Why the Throat Center Matters in Human Design

Here’s where it starts to get really interesting.

You were never designed to communicate like everyone else.

There isn’t one ā€œrightā€ way to speak, market, share, or express yourself. Your chart holds a very specific way your voice is meant to move, and when you lean into that, something clicks.

For some people, their voice is fast and in the moment.
For others, it’s emotional and needs the right timing.
For some, it’s storytelling.
For others, it’s insight, patterns, or straight truth.

And when you try to force your voice into a structure that doesn’t match your design, it can feel like you’re doing everything right but nothing is really landing.

For me, it used to feel like I was shouting into a wind tunnel and no one could actually hear me.

That’s the frustrating part.
But it’s also the turning point.

Because once you start working with your voice instead of against it, something shifts.

People respond differently.
Your co-workers understand you.
Your content lands.
Your words feel cleaner.
Your energy behind them feels stronger.

You don’t need to say more.
You just need to say what’s aligned.

Why You Feel Misunderstood (It’s Not What You Think)

Now let’s talk about that feeling of being unheard, because this is the piece that so many people carry quietly.

Most of the time, it’s not that your voice isn’t powerful.
It’s that it’s slightly out of sync with how it’s meant to be expressed.

The timing might be off.
The energy might not be fully there yet.
Or the pacing just isn’t matching how your voice actually works.

You might be speaking before you’re fully clear.
Or sharing when your energy isn’t actually behind it.

Or especially as a Manifesting Generator, moving so quickly that you’ve already skipped ahead before anyone else has caught up.

And this part matters.

You’re not here to say more.
You’re here to be understood in the right way.

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How Your Voice Creates Real Movement

Because that’s really what this is about.

Your voice is the bridge between what’s inside you and what actually becomes real.

It’s how your ideas move forward.
It’s how people understand you.
It’s how relationships deepen.
It’s how clients say yes.
It’s how opportunities actually open.

Not because you said the perfect thing,
but because what you said was aligned and real.

People don’t just hear that.
They respond to it.

This is what we’re going to explore together.

We’re going to look at the specific gates in your Throat Center, because each one carries a different kind of voice, a different message, and a different way your expression is meant to land.

You’re going to start to see yourself in a whole new way.

And more importantly, you’re going to understand why your voice works the way it does and how to actually use it.

Because nothing becomes real until it’s expressed.
And this is how you start doing that in a way that actually works for you.

Because you are meant to be heard.
Not louder.
Not more polished.
Just more you.

And when that clicks, everything opens.

Grab your chart here. You’ll want to look for the gates that are colored in before we go deeper.

New to Human Design?

If you’re new to Human Design, here’s the simplest way to think about it.

It’s a system that shows you how your energy naturally works. How you make decisions, how you use your energy, and in this case, how your voice is designed to express and be received.

Your chart isn’t something you need to fix.
It’s something you learn to work with.

It shows you where your strengths already are and where you may have been trying to fit into someone else’s mold.

And if you want a deeper breakdown of your type, authority, and how to actually use your design in real life, you can start here:

[What is Human Design? And Why is Everyone Talking About It?]

For now, just know this.

Your voice already has a blueprint.
And we’re about to look at exactly how yours is designed to work.

The Gates of the Throat: Your Unique Voice Blueprint

Now that you understand why the Throat Center matters, this is where it starts to get personal.

Because your voice isn’t just ā€œdefinedā€ or ā€œundefined.ā€

It has texture.
It has patterns.
It has a very specific way it’s meant to come through.

And that’s what the gates show us.

Each gate in the Throat Center represents a different way of expressing yourself. A different message. A different kind of impact your voice is here to make.

For example:

Some people are here to share ideas.
Some are here to tell stories.
Some are here to speak emotional truth.
Some are here to simplify things or bring clarity in the moment.

You don’t have all of them.
And you’re not supposed to.

The gates you do have are your natural voice. The ones you’re meant to trust. The ones that feel the most like you when you stop overthinking and just let yourself speak.

And when you understand these, something really powerful happens.

You stop trying to sound like everyone else.
You stop questioning if you’re saying it ā€œright.ā€
And you start recognizing your voice as something that already works.

That’s where the archetypes come in.

Because it’s one thing to know you have a gate.
It’s another thing to see yourself in it.

Each gate carries an archetype, a way of being, expressing, and showing up that you can actually recognize in your life, your content, your conversations, and your work.

This is where you need your chart. You can find it here. You’ll want to find the gates that are colored in to look up your specific archetypes and design.Ā 

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The Throat Center

Gate Archetypes & The Design Behind Your Voice

 

GATE 62 – THE GATE OF DETAILS

Archetype: The Precise Explainer

You’re the one who can say exactly what others are trying to say.

You bring structure to ideas, clarity to conversations, and language to things that feel abstract or scattered.

The Design Behind Your Voice

Throat Center → Ajna
Channel of Acceptance (Collective Circuitry)
Shadow: Intellect → Gift: Precision → Siddhi: Impeccability

This gate expresses information with precise language. The words you choose are intentional and carry clarity.

When you’re aligned, you create understanding instantly.
When you’re not, you may overthink or focus too much on sounding ā€œright.ā€

Your power is in clean, grounded expression.

 

GATE 23 – THE GATE OF ASSIMILIATION

Archetype: The Simplifier

You take what feels complex and make it make sense.

You’re here to turn insight into something people can actually understand and use.

The Design Behind Your Voice

Throat Center → Ajna
Channel of Structuring (Individual Circuitry)
Shadow: Complexity → Gift: Simplicity → Siddhi: Quintessence

This gate expresses insights that are often ahead of their time in a clear and concise way.

When you’re aligned, your voice creates instant clarity.
When you’re not, you may feel misunderstood or like people aren’t ready for what you see.

Your gift is making the complex feel simple.

Ready to Unlock the Power of Your Voice?
✨ Order your Personalized Throat Center Reading here.

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GATE 56 – THE GATE OF STIMULATION

Archetype: The Storyteller

You don’t just share information. You bring it to life.

Your voice creates meaning through experience and draws people into what you’re saying.

The Design Behind Your Voice

Throat Center → Ajna
Channel of Curiosity (Collective Circuitry)
Shadow: Distraction → Gift: Enrichment → Siddhi: Intoxication

This gate expresses ideas through storytelling and has the ability to captivate and engage.

When you’re aligned, your stories inspire and expand others.
When you’re not, your energy can feel scattered or unfocused.

Your voice is meant to stimulate the mind and open perspectives.

 

GATE 35 – THE GATE OF CHANGE

Archetype: The Experience Translator

You are here to give voice to growth, change, and lived experience.

You help people understand transformation through what you’ve moved through.

The Design Behind Your Voice

Throat Center → Solar Plexus
Channel of Transition (Sensory Circuitry)
Shadow: Hunger → Gift: Adventure → Siddhi: Boundlessness

This gate is driven by experience and expression through change.

When you’re aligned, you embrace life and share wisdom through it.
When you’re not, you may chase experiences out of restlessness.

Your voice evolves through what you live.

 

GATE 12 – THE GATE OF CAUTION

Archetype: The Emotional Messenger

Your voice carries emotional depth and truth.

You are here to express feelings in a way that opens others.

The Design Behind Your Voice

Throat Center → Solar Plexus
Channel of Openness (Knowing Circuitry)
Shadow: Vanity → Gift: Discrimination → Siddhi: Purity

This gate is selective in expression and sensitive to timing.

When you’re aligned, your words land with emotional clarity.
When you’re not, you may hold back or feel misunderstood.

Your voice is powerful when it’s ready, not rushed.

 

GATE 45 – THE GATE OF THE GATHERER

Archetype: The Leader’s Voice

You are here to lead through your voice.

You bring people together and create direction through what you say.

The Design Behind Your Voice

Throat Center → Ego
Channel of Money (Ego Circuitry)
Shadow: Dominance → Gift: Synergy → Siddhi: Communion

This gate speaks from authority and resource awareness.

When you’re aligned, you lead and unify others.
When you’re not, control or over-direction can come through.

Your voice is meant to guide and provide.

 

GATE 33- THE GATE OF PRIVACY

Archetype: The Reflective Storykeeper

You are here to reflect on the past and share wisdom when the timing is right.

Your voice carries depth, memory, and meaning.

The Design Behind Your Voice

Throat Center → G Center
Channel of the Prodigal (Sensory Circuitry)
Shadow: Forgetting → Gift: Mindfulness → Siddhi: Revelation

This gate processes experience through reflection.

When you’re aligned, you share powerful insights from the past.
When you’re not, you may withdraw or feel disconnected from your story.

Your voice reveals truth through reflection.

 

GATE 8 – THE GATE OF CONTRIBUTION

Archetype: The Creative Contributor

You are here to express your unique voice and perspective.

Your creativity is your message.

The Design Behind Your Voice

Throat Center → G Center
Channel of Inspiration (Knowing Circuitry)
Shadow: Mediocrity → Gift: Style → Siddhi: Exquisiteness

This gate brings originality and contribution through expression.

When you’re aligned, your authenticity draws people in.
When you’re not, you may question your uniqueness.

Your voice is meant to stand out, not fit in.

 

GATE 31 – THE GATE OF INFLUENCE

Archetype: The Influencer

You are here to lead through your voice in a way that is recognized and invited.

Your words shape direction.

The Design Behind Your Voice

Throat Center → G Center
Channel of the Alpha (Understanding Circuitry)
Shadow: Arrogance → Gift: Leadership → Siddhi: Humility

This gate influences through aligned leadership. These are often elected leaders who are ready to listen and be the voice of democracy.

When you’re aligned, people naturally follow your guidance.
When you’re not, your voice may feel forced or not received.

Your power is in being recognized, not pushing.

 

GATE 20 – THE GATE OF THE NOW

Archetype: The Truth in the Now

Your voice is powerful in the present moment.

You speak what is true as it is happening.

The Design Behind Your Voice

Throat Center → Spleen, G, and Sacral Center
Channel of Charisma, Awakening, and the Brainwave – Integration channels
Shadow: Superficiality → Gift: Self-Assurance → Siddhi: Presence

This gate is fully rooted in the now and responds instantly.

When you’re aligned, your voice is magnetic and impactful.
When you’re not, your words may feel reactive or disconnected.

Your power is in trusting the moment.

 

GATE 16 – THE GATE OF SKILLS

Archetype: The Enthusiastic Mastery

You are here to speak about what you love, practice, and refine.

Your voice carries passion and devotion to mastery.

The Design Behind Your Voice

Throat Center → Spleen
Channel of the Wavelength (Understanding Circuitry)
Shadow: Indifference → Gift: Versatility → Siddhi: Mastery

This gate develops skill through repetition and enthusiasm.

When you’re aligned, your passion is contagious.
When you’re not, you may feel disconnected from your talents.

Your voice strengthens through what you commit to.

Final note

Because the goal isn’t just to understand your voice.

It’s to finally trust it.

Ready to Unlock the Power of Your Voice?
✨ Order your Personalized Throat Center Reading here.

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Human Design Centers Show That Weaknesses Are Superpowers in Disguise

Human Design Centers Show That Weaknesses Are Superpowers in Disguise

Just the other day, I was scrolling Reddit and saw a post in a Human Design forum. The title jumped out at me: ā€œFeeling inauthentic and rejected.ā€ The person was struggling with their voice and wondering why they felt invisible, like no one was hearing them.

I asked if they had an undefined Throat Center, and sure enough, they did.

Here’s what’s interesting. When your Throat is undefined, it can feel like a weakness. You might feel overlooked or like your words never land.

But that same center also carries a hidden superpower. Once you learn how to work with it, your voice becomes magnetic. The timing of your words creates impact, and people really listen when you speak.

That’s the beauty of Human Design and why I never get tired of talking about it! The places where you feel weak are often misunderstood centers.

Defined or Undefined, every center has both a challenge and a gift.

What you think could be ā€œwrong with youā€ is usually the exact place where your superpower lives!

To demonstrate my point, this post is all about defined centers.

Defined Centers are the parts of your chart that show consistent energy. Think of them as your natural talents.

Sometimes you’re very aware of them because they come so easily. Other times you overlook them because they feel so normal to you.

Either way, your defined centers are steady sources of power, and when you use them with intention, they can change everything.

Defined Centers: Your Natural Superpowers

I’ve created Archetypes for each center that you can find in the Aligned Profit Kit to make these centers easy to understand at a glance to activate their superpowers.

Here they are at a glance so you can get started and start to ditch the idea that you have weaknesses and find out why these are a strength instead!

Defined Head Center “The Inspired Thinker”

Your mind naturally generates ideas. While other people look around for motivation, you are a steady source of possibility.

Your superpower is showing others what’s possible just by sharing the ideas that flow through you.

 

Defined Ajna Center “The Decoder”

Your thoughts have structure and stability. You see patterns and connect dots that others miss, turning inspiration into clear insights.

Your superpower is helping others make sense of what feels complex.

 

Defined Throat Center “The Channeler”

Your voice carries weight. When you speak from truth, people pay attention. You don’t need to force it, because your words naturally bring ideas into form.

Your superpower is turning expression into impact.

 

Defined G CenterĀ  “The Compass”

You carry a steady sense of identity and direction. Even when others feel lost, your clarity helps them remember who they are and where they’re going.

Your superpower is guiding others simply by standing firm in your own sense of self.

 

Defined Heart or Ego CenterĀ  “The Anchor”

Your willpower is consistent. When you commit to something, you follow through. This builds trust and creates momentum for you and those around you.

Your superpower is showing the power of promises kept and value honored.

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Defined Solar Plexus Center “The Emotional Powerhouse”

Your emotions move in waves, and those waves hold wisdom. While others might resist the ups and downs, you discover truth by feeling it fully.

Your superpower is bringing depth, connection, and clarity through your emotions.

 

Defined Sacral Center “The Energy Magnet”

You have a reliable life force that hums when you’re doing work you love. You don’t need to hustle to prove yourself.

Your superpower is magnetizing energy by trusting your gut responses and only saying yes to what lights you up.

 

Defined Spleen Center “The Survivalist”

Your intuition speaks in the moment. You know when to move and when to wait. While others second-guess, you trust the quiet voice inside.

Your superpower is sensing what’s safe and aligned right away.

 

Defined Root Center “The Steady Flame”

You handle pressure with resilience. While others may feel scattered or rushed, you know how to turn stress into steady progress.

Your superpower is bringing calm momentum that carries you and others through.

Your defined centers are not just parts of your chart.

They are the natural talents you can lean on every day. The more you recognize them, the easier it becomes to trust your strengths and use them with intention.

šŸ‘‰ Want to know which centers are defined in your chart? That’s where the Aligned Profit Kit comes in.

Along with the Turn Ideas Into Income Workbook, you’ll get a set of custom Oracle-style cards that show you exactly how to activate your centers as superpowers in your daily life.

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Which of your defined centers do you feel the most connected to right now? Let me know in the comments!

XoXo,

The Superpower of a Defined Ajna in Human Design

The Superpower of a Defined Ajna in Human Design

Have you ever wondered why your mind feels so steady while others seem to shift their opinions more frequently? Human Design has an answer, and it all comes down to your centers.

What Is a Center in Human Design?

Centers are the energy hubs in your chart. They shape how you think, feel, express, and move through the world. Each one represents a different type of energy (like inspiration, emotion, willpower, or identity).

When a center is defined, it means that energy flows in a consistent, reliable way for you. It is a strength you can trust.

When it is undefined, it means you are more open and flexible in that area, but also more influenced by the world around you.

Neither one is better or worse. They simply function differently.

Don’t know your centers? Download Your Free ChartšŸ‘‰ [GET MY CHART]

What Does It Mean to Have a Defined Ajna?

The Ajna Center in Human Design is your hub for mental processing and conceptualization. It is where you:

  • Take in inspiration from the Head Center

  • Organize ideas into something meaningful

  • Develop your beliefs, opinions, and frameworks

If your Ajna is defined, your mind is not just active. It is structured. You may notice you:

āœ…Think in patterns

āœ…Translate the world into systems that others can understand, and

āœ…Bring order to the swirl of information around you.

Why This Is a Superpower

People with a Defined Ajna often underestimate themselves because their clarity feels ā€œnormalā€ or ā€œobvious.ā€ But to others, your ability to explain, simplify, and ground ideas is magnetic.

ā€œYou are not just thinking. You are translating the world into something others can understand.ā€

Your Defined Ajna is:

  • A steady compass in a noisy world

  • A grounding presence when others are uncertain

  • A natural translator who makes complex things simple

This is why people trust your perspective (and why sharing it can make such a difference!).

How to Work With It

šŸ”¹ Create space to explore ideas that fascinate you
šŸ”¹ Share what you have thought through deeply, even if it feels ā€œobviousā€
šŸ”¹ Do not force yourself to be flexible, your stability is a gift
šŸ”¹ Let your opinions evolve over time, but honor your clarity
šŸ”¹ Speak or write what you know to be true, it has weight

šŸ’” Remember: Your Ajna is not here to bounce around. It is here to offer a steady lens that helps others make sense of their world.

she's not guessing, she's grounded in what she knows

Final Thought

If you have a Defined Ajna, your mind is designed to hold structure. That does not mean you will always feel certain, but when you trust your thought process you give others permission to find clarity too.

✨ You are not here just to inspire. You are here to offer understanding. That is your gift.

šŸ’­Drop a comment and let me know if you have a Defined or Undefined Ajna. Have you noticed anything with your beliefs and ideas?

šŸ‘‰ Want to see how all your centers shape your unique energy to create aligned profit? Get the Turn Ideas Into Income WorkbookĀ or explore a Soul Purpose Reading to dive deeper into your chart.

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Why I Believe Human Design Is More Than a Trend (+ Free Tools to Start)

Why I Believe Human Design Is More Than a Trend (+ Free Tools to Start)

You may be thinking Human Design is just a trend. Another buzzword. Something that’ll fade once the next ā€œitā€ system rolls in.

I get it. I thought that, too.

But then I learned the real reason Human Design was created and why it matters more than ever in times like these.

Ra Uru Hu, the founder of Human Design, said it was designed for 2027 because the world would get… weird.
And if you’ve looked around lately, he wasn’t wrong.

[Read More About How Human Design Was Founded HERE]

But what truly convinced me this wasn’t just a fad?
The feeling I had when I read my chart for the first time.

Growing Up, I Always Felt… Different

As a kid, I used to wonder if I had been adopted. I looked like my mom, but I didn’t think like the rest of my family.

They believed in hard work that often led to burnout, low pay, and no room for dreaming.

I believed there had to be more.

⭐More possibility.
⭐More ease.
⭐More me.

But no one around me could see that so I started to hide it. Which is simplified way of saying “conditioning!”

 

Fast forward to adulthood, I was doing everything ā€œrightā€. I was building a career, checking the boxes, and performing well in Corporate America.

Yet every morning, I put on my business-casual costume and felt like a stranger to myself. (see “Are you an Awakened Professional?“)

🌱 Human Design Changed That

When I finally stumbled onto Human Design and the Gene Keys, I didn’t expect much.

But what I found?
It explained things I had never been able to put into words.

It validated the weird parts of me. You know, the ones that never fit into a job description but were always there just below the surface.

Suddenly, the things I thought were flaws or quirks… were strengths.

I began to understand why I was great at helping others express their ideas, even when I struggled to express my own.

It made sense why people would leave a session with me experiencing their own clarity, even when I couldn’t explain what I had done (Hint: It was my defined head center!)).

It was all in my chart.

And once I started using it as a tool instead of just a curiosity, everything started shifting.

Here Are Some Tools to Start Your Own Journey:

If this is all new to you, or if you’re feeling that same, ā€œI don’t fit inā€ ache, you don’t need to change who you are. You just need a framework to help you understand how you already work.

Here are some tools to get you moving toward understanding the powerhouse of wisdom your chart holds:

šŸ”¹ Get Your Free Human Design Chart

[šŸ‘‰ Download Your Chart Here]

šŸ”¹ Learn About Your Environment

Discover how your physical surroundings impact your energy and creativity.
[šŸ‘‰ Get the Free Environment Guide]

šŸ”¹ Decode Your Business Energy

The Turn Ideas Into Income Workbook shows you how to use your centers to find clarity, pick the right idea, and finally create aligned income.
It’s not just another workbook. It’s an activation.

[šŸ‘‰ Grab it for $27]

šŸ”¹ Brand New to Human Design?

Get the Embody Your Human Design Workbook
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By understanding key elements in your chart, you activate your ability to be YOU with confidence and clarity.

🧔 You’re Not Too Much. You’re Not Too Late. You’re Not Weird.

You were never meant to fit into a mold.
You were meant to understand your energy so you can express your true gifts.

If Human Design or the Gene Keys helped you feel more like you, I’d love to hear your story.

Leave a comment or reply and tell me…
Did you feel like you fit in growing up?
How has your chart made you feel seen?

Let me know in the comments!